So What Is The Technique And Why Would You Want To Squirt ?

Many who have experienced squirting initially felt anxious about it until they came to understand what was happening and that it could be pleasurable.

It’s not necessarily an orgasm, in fact most women squirt separately to their orgasm, but squirting has been linked to feelings of deeper meaning, deeper relaxation and deeper pleasure. It’s all about discovering what you like and what you feel comfortable with.

So let’s begin … you may want to empty your bladders beforehand, and just pop a towel down.

Hydration

When someone squirts it's usually from g-spot stimulation, or clitoral and g-spot dual stimulation. Keep yourself well hydrated but be sure to empty your bladder before attempting to squirt

Relax Into It

Make time and relax, it's unlikely you'll squirt if you’re not fully relaxed and present in the moment. Warm up to it, take time to explore your erogenous zones going solo or partnered.

Stimulate The G-Spot And The Clitoris

Lay back and use a well lubricated finger or toy and insert gently. Stroke in a come hither motion or rock it against your front vaginal wall to stimulate the g-spot area for quite sometime. Use a vibrating toy on your clitoris or ask your partner to touch your clitoris with their fingers, mouth or they use a clitoral vibrator.

Dual stimulation can be key to unlocking your squirt.

Discover What You Like

Once you've figured out the touch that brings pleasure and that feeling of tension, or even that feeling of needing to pee, think of this as the area that needs some prepping. To make squirting happen you will probably need some prolonged or intense stimulation. Start by increasing the touch duration and use massage that slowly moves to more pressure or speed.

More Pressure

You have to build up the pressure, speed, duration, and consistency so it feels like the pressure and tension are building and building. However you must try to remain relaxed and openminded. Getting to the point of squirting usually requires a bit of a stronger or faster stimulation than you might think.

Be Patient

Sometimes it takes a while for the real tension to kick in. So, just be patient and make sure whoever is doing the stimulating and whoever is receiving is in a comfy position.

Don't Stop

Keep a continuous flow, without any interruptions in pressure, speed or changes in direction. Simply maintain a steady pace, repeating the motion over and over again, and then repeating it even more.

You May Feel Like Bursting

When the overwhelming tension and pressure reach a point you may actually feel like you can’t take anymore and want to burst or indeed push out! like an explosion, there are several techniques that can be now tried either individually or in combination, to stimulate squirting.

Keep Consistent

For most women who experience squirting, maintaining a steady and uninterrupted motion is key. This consistent movement plays a significant role in the actual act of squirting.

Relax And Unclench

When consciously relaxing their internal muscles, including pushing down on the pelvic floor after holding them flexed or clenched for so long, most people feel a sudden release, almost like a squirt.

The act of clenching creates a sensation of pressure, and when these muscles relax, it's like opening the gates.

Push Out

Most liquid is expelled when you actively push out or bear down as if you are squeezing something out. This is the sensation when most stop. But this part actively requires a gentle but forceful pushing outward movement.

Increased Speed

Some women might need a sudden burst of speed, either on their own or with their partner's support, with a heightened intensity. But this only happens after a certain level of tension has been built. So, just a random burst of speed won't do without the necessary buildup.

Take Out The Internal Stimulant

If you're still using an internal stimulant, it might be causing a blockage. If there's still something inside the vagina, whether it's fingers, a toy, or a penis, it's best to remove it.

Just that sensation of pulling out seems to trigger most squirting release.

But What If It Didn’t Happen …

Honestly don’t expect instant results, for some women it takes months or longer before experiencing it, including myself. And even after you figure it out, it might still take time each time.

We are all so unique and our bodies too, so if you haven't experienced it, can't, or simply don't enjoy it, you're not alone.

Remember… the key is pleasure, if it doesn’t bring you pleasure then perhaps rethink it ❤️

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